11.23.2008

National Adoption Month

I've been alerted to the fact that it is National Adoption Month from several different places lately. It got me thinking. There are verses in the Bible that talk about the charge of caring for orphans and widows. In this adoption focus, I've noticed that the "widows" part seems to be less emphasized. It's not that I don't think it's important to care for orphans, in whatever capacity one can, but I think many have forgotten the "widows." I take this to mean any elderly person who is primarily alone. I see it very often: elderly people left at nursing homes and visited rarely if at all. Pat suggested something to me recently that made me certain that he is the most perfect husband for me! He suggested that we "adopt" a grandparent! Yes, we do have grandparents, but we don't live near any family. We also know there are grandparents who do not live near their families. This presents a perfect opportunity! I have high hopes that we will be able to find our adopted person/couple. I plan on visiting one of the Senior Centers to start the search process. I hope that I can encourage anyone to not forget the other end of the pendulum. Children are so important, and I think it is an amazing thing for people to adopt a child. I also think it is amazing for people to adopt a widow(er). Happy National Adoption Month!

2 comments:

Rachelle said...

I came over from Lesli's blog. Thank you for highlighting the needs of widows/widowers, it is so easy to forget them and their need for care. My husband had the best "adopted grandparents" while in college, we still contact one another. This is especially in my mind during the holidays, which can be very lonely for some elderly people.

Rachelle in NM

Unknown said...

Great idea and so, so needed! Our pastor this past Sunday encouraged us to open our homes and tables to those who have no place to go this Thanksgiving. We put our name in for 2 places at our table.

I am a friend of Jana's and have come out of lurking to comment.

Love reading your adventures.

Teresa